Yet, in most cases, the woman will have plenty of time to get over the break up and even move on, so she will be less willing to catch up in person.

Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex begging you to take them back. Sometimes, it will take several in-person meetings and lots of flirting and attraction-building to completely change your ex’s mind about breaking up.To find out if your current scenario falls into this category, just In other words, you fumbled around a bit for a while after the breakup, and maybe you made a few mistakes along the way. Your breakup was recent, within the last 30 days or so, and you’ve done everything I teach in my Ex … You worry that your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend is slipping through your fingers.You fear that if you can’t get them back right now, that you will lose them forever.The reason you have this feeling is because you feel you have lost control.It seems like one minute you “had” your ex and the two of you were happily in love.

You worry that your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend is slipping through your fingers.

If you can do that, you should be only a month or two from having your ex back in your arms again. So, on this page, I’m going to cover several possible scenarios you might be facing right now… and I’m going to give you a  general prognosis for each of these common situations.If you try to take short-cuts or ignore my advice and do too much too soon, you’ll almost certainly push your ex further away at some point and that will only set you back and make it more difficult and more time-consuming to win back your ex.Now, on to a few common situations, and what each means in terms of how long you can expect it to take to get back together with your ex…Essentially, this means you’ve done all the right stuff to help re-attract your ex, and haven’t made any major mistakes.In this type of situation, which isn’t very common unless you’re smart enough to Now there’s no guarantee that you’ll succeed in starting over with your ex regardless of how well you handle things after the breakup, but typically in these type of situations you can expect to have your ex back within 6 weeks or so.In other words, within a couple of weeks after you finish the 30 day No Contact period.That’s a best-case-scenario, but it does happen quite often.

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There’s no lifeboats left, and you’re a long way from shore. Now, don’t lose all hope — especially not if you haven’t confirmed how bad things are by taking I hate to sound harsh, and there’s no sense crying over spilt milk, but if you got to this point then you probably should’ve sought my help sooner… or at least had better control over your emotions and actions that led you to this dire point.Sometimes you might do everything right and still end up in a bad spot like this, but mostly it’s because you did everything wrong for months after the breakup, and now you’re facing a tough uphill battle that’s going to take months… or longer.If there’s still hope at all, then expect to spend a minimum of 2-3 more months re-building your ex’s attraction and repairing their mental image of you before they’ll take you back.If that describes your situation, I’m sorry, but… you’re f****ed!Thankfully, most of you are not in a hopeless situation, so please start doing things correctly… beginning right now! Now, you’ve put an end to any unproductive or possibly even harmful behaviours, and started applying No Contact or already finished the full 30 days.You CAN change their mind using the psychological tactics I teach, and in doing so you’ll basically be re-setting their feelings about you and your value generally.So really, that’s why it may be another two months potentially before you’re able to seal the deal with your ex… your ex will need time to let go of negative thoughts and feelings, and become attracted to you once again.If your ex was more uncertain about the breakup generally, and maybe even started having regrets soon after you began the No Contact phase, then things will be easier and progress more quickly once No Contact ends.If the breakup was ugly, or you screwed up and hurt your ex or made them angry for some reason during the final days of the relationship, then you may need 6 or 8 weeks to fully “re-set” their emotions and Eventually, their attraction and the fact they miss you like crazy will cause them to ignore any rational reasons for breaking up and forgive you for any wrongdoings.This could be a situation where you’ve made some significant mistakes already that you know have hurt your chances… things like repeatedly begging, pleading your ex, or even bringing out your inner psycho and showed up at their house randomly or sent drunk texts gushing your heart out…Or it could be that you just completely ignored my advice and failed to employ No Contact at all for months after being dumped, and now you’re suddenly starting to wake up and get things right in hopes it’s not too late to fix things with your ex.In fact, even if you haven’t made big mistakes, and you’ve listened to some of my advice, but your ex was furious about something you did or said at the time of the breakup, and hasn’t completely forgiven you yet… then you’re also probably in a similar situation currently.If this is where you’re at currently with your ex, then the road to starting over in a new relationship is long.It’s not usually impossible, especially if you begin really sticking to the 3R System and the techniques I explain in The Ex Factor Guide, but it’s going to take at least a couple of months, typically.You might get lucky and your ex might be particularly emotional and prone to heartache, but it’s not going to be quick or easy to get them back most of the time when you’re facing this sort of scenario.Basically, folks, this is the boat you don’t want to find yourself in.

And now they have pushed through the awkwardness to bring themselves to do it.So trying to talk to your ex about getting back together soon after the breakup is doing so when they are The no contact rule gives your ex time to feel the relief from breaking up with you.The relief is from finally getting the breakup over with and it’s important that they get that time period over with quickly.The first several days, let’s say somewhere in the first week, a lot of that relief wears off if you stay away.That does NOT mean that your ex is ready to leap back into your arms after that, but it does mean that they are now going to be back to reality in some ways and Your ex was patting themselves on the back, proud they did something difficult and that they had gotten it over with.But at some point within that first week or shortly after, most of the celebrating ends and your ex starts to try focus on real life again.It is in this stage that no contact starts having an effect in that it usually makes your ex curious.Your ex wonders why you aren’t going after them.

Why you aren’t texting or calling them, begging them to come back to you?