There are only 2 possible reasons why an ex-boyfriend or an ex-girlfriend would do that:And that’s it. The most possible explanations are:My ex and I broke up 6 years ago, since then I find it hard to move on, he also calls me periodically and hasn’t been in a stable relationship over the years. While Drake having a child was I heard it over the phone at first, and I was like, ‘Oh, I’m sure they’re gonna speed it up. If dumpees fall for these traps, dumpers are then given the opportunity to retaliate in anger, frustration or sadness. They act so irrationally and upset by the breakup, their friends and family can easily spot their erratic behavior.My psychological theory goes like this; the more you focus on what you don’t want, the more you show what you actually want. Emotionless

Sometimes exes go above and beyond to show how much fun they are having with other people and post it all over their social media.

My plan wasn’t to get into porn and to be a porn star. But if you do, it’s truly one of the best signs that your ex is not over you yet.Indifference is the most powerful state to be in and is exactly the opposite of being over you.

He calls my siblings more often and not me I miss him so much……days ago we spoke at length and I asked him if he has someone else he contemplated before telling me, after he told me there was someone I felt bad….. When a person is interested in you, he or she will give you his or her undivided attention.If your ex makes you feel special and shows that he or she cares about you indirectly by giving you his/her attention, you can rest assured. In doing so, they deliberately set down traps for dumpees to get caught in. The same goes for lying. I was like, ‘Okay, well, I’m so glad they liked it.’ I was very flattered by it.Kanye West Discusses Mental Health, His Mother & Drake In Interview With David LettermanDrake’s Lyric Notebook From The Early 2000s Is On Sale For $32,500Here's A Recap Of Mariah Carey's 'Genius Level' Interview Sometimes love really is that simple.Another feasible sign your ex is just pretending to be over you is when your ex refuses to give you your stuff back.

But once you show that you're way more into us than we are into you, we'll dump you out of guilt. This means that your ex considers you valuable and respects you enough to want your happiness.This is another one of those ambiguous signs. As a result of unwavering anxiety, your ex succumbs to the pressure and begins to pretend to be over you. Your ex may not be directly in contact with you, but an indifferent or angry person wouldn’t ask or talk about you in a nice manner.Dumpees and dumpers are often like water and oil.

Most of the time, exes don’t need to pretend they are over you because the end of the relationship signals that they are.Dumpees, on the other hand, find it difficult to pretend. Break-ups are the worst.There's really not much more for me to say about them that hasn't already been explored in a Nicholas Sparks novel or a Cosmo essay. Maybe you traveled a lot with work.

In other words, an overly-conscious ex starts having trouble staying true to his or her real intentions and acts out of character.Very seldom do human beings actually think about what they are like when they are normal (not anxious). Nostalgia is a powerful emotion. If your ex hides his or her new relationship from you, it could mean many things. The more your ex tries to prove a point by defending himself or herself when others tease him or her, the bigger the sign your ex is not over you yet.Your ex will look for reasons that he or she is over you. Since he or she won’t tell you the reasons, you can consider it as one of the signs your ex is pretending to be over you and is keeping doors open.Dumpees often treasure their past memories way more than dumpers. Emotionless Lyrics: You've got me feeling emotions / Ayy, higher / Ahhhhhhh / You've got me fe– / You, ohhhh / Don't link me / Don't hit me when you hear this and tell me your favorite song / Don't This implies that as long as your ex keeps an eye on you, he or she cares to some degree. But I have found a way to make break-ups, and even that awkward transitionary period where you feel like your entire life is a failure, a little bit better.. You have to pretend your exes are dead They simply don’t mix together and as a result, stay away from each other.